Purposeful Goals, Quick Tips

Serenity Tip: Try Something You’ve Wondered About

I have an empty bottle on my kitchen counter. It’s there to remind me not to hold back in trying new experiences and that it’s far better to dip a toe in the water and find you hate it, than to never know the pleasure of floating on your back in a gentle sea.

Serenity Tip: Try Something

The bottle in question held Eiswein, a type of dessert wine made from grapes which have been frozen on the vine. The resulting wine is sweet and somewhat pricey. My Dad – a bit of an oenophile – had been curious about Eiswein for years, but it was only fairly recently (he’s in his 70s) that we persuaded him to splash out and try some.

Now, as it turned out, he wasn’t delighted by it. Nonetheless, I kept the bottle because I couldn’t shake the thought that he might have loved it, and he might have regretted missing out on fifty-odd years of Eiswein-quaffing pleasure. That bottle is there on my counter as my prompt to try new things, especially things which seem fascinating, enticing, or a little extravagant.

Is there something you’ve always wondered about trying? Might now be the time? Please share your thoughts.

A Spoonful of Serenity

A spoonful of serenityHere are some serene resources which caught my eye this week:

  • An interesting way of looking at when to drink coffee, and it’s not based on time of day.
  • Since we’re talking about trying new things, do you fancy a micro-adventure or two? If so, this site’s for you.
  • But if fear is holding you back, know that it’s unlikely you’re assessing the situation entirely objectively. Consider these fascinating insights on risk perception before you make up your mind.

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    Jean | DelightfulRepast.com
    September 18, 2017 at 10:56 am

    Pauline, love your bottle story! I can’t think right now of anything that fits the category really, but related to it: I want to say Yes to more things. It seems when I’m invited to go somewhere or do something, I tend to think of all the reasons I can’t do it right now. I need to learn to say Just Say Yes.

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      September 18, 2017 at 3:25 pm

      Jean, I really admire Gretchen Rubin’s work. She has a phrase “Choose the bigger life” which can be helpful when I’m on the fence about getting myself into something. You might also enjoy Shonda Rhimes’ book, The Year of Yes. (She says No to plenty, BTW).

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